Recently, I spent three days in Hyderabad learning the art of shooting videos, which was a completely new experience for me.
For the first time in my life, I found myself sitting in a chair with a makeup artist applying foundation and adjusting my look.
The video coach (yes, apart from a business coach, I now have a video coach for myself whose guidance I am following when creating videos) had advised that makeup would help me look better on camera, and as I watched the artist meticulously work on my face, I began to gain an entirely new perspective.
In that moment, I realized how much effort actors put into their craft. Before, I had always wondered why movie stars seemed to have an entourage of people constantly around them—wiping their faces, adjusting their outfits, holding umbrellas over them.
It seemed excessive, maybe even a little unnecessary. But now, having gone through a fraction of what they do, I understood that these professionals are there to ensure that everything is perfect so the actor can focus on delivering their best performance. It’s not about luxury; it’s about maintaining the quality and consistency needed to produce something great.
This experience made me think about how easily perceptions can lead us to incorrect conclusions, particularly in our workplaces.
We might see a colleague's behavior or decisions and form an opinion without understanding the full context.
Perhaps we believe someone is being overly cautious, when in reality, they’re navigating complex challenges we aren’t aware of. Or maybe we perceive someone as aloof, when they might simply be focused on a difficult task that requires their undivided attention.
Just like my perception of actors changed once I was in their shoes, we can all benefit from challenging our initial perceptions of others in our organizations.
Before jumping to conclusions, consider the possibility that there’s more to the story.
Ask yourself: What might I be missing? How can I gain a deeper understanding of this person’s situation or challenges?
Here are a few strategies to help overcome misleading perceptions:
Practice Empathy: Take the time to put yourself in the other person’s shoes. What might they be experiencing that you’re not aware of? How might their circumstances or pressures differ from yours?
Ask Questions: Instead of making assumptions, approach the situation with curiosity. Engage in open conversations to understand the full context behind someone’s actions or decisions.
Suspend Judgment: Before forming an opinion, consider the possibility that your initial perception might not tell the whole story. Be open to revising your thoughts as you gather more information.
Seek Different Perspectives: Sometimes, we need an outside perspective to see things more clearly. Talk to others who might have insights into the situation, and be open to considering viewpoints that differ from your own.
By striving to understand rather than judge, we create a more inclusive and supportive work environment. We not only improve our own leadership capabilities but also foster stronger, more collaborative relationships with our colleagues.
In the end, moving beyond perceptions to a place of genuine understanding can unlock new opportunities and insights that benefit both the individual and the organization as a whole.
Johncey George is a ICF PCC Leadership Coach with specialization in Leadership Coaching for Introverts. Johncey runs a 1 Year Leadership Development Program called Leadership Success Club to help accelerate the journey of Introvert Professionals to Senior Leadership Roles https://www.leadershipsuccessclub.com
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